The EvE ok... better title GROWN TALK

i dont even know why thats the title.......

anyway

so today no music just easing it at work then something happen that put me in a compromising position.

this for the fellas.....
i might end up breaking man law for a friend but shit my homegirl who is really cool one of the biggest hearts i have ever met might have or maybe in the potential of swallowing another dose of relationshit poison. i dont name drop so dont look for a name but she 3 kids 2 times divorced blah blah no need to preface. well i think she is seeing or about to be seeing a dude. who i can say maybe a cold cat because homie has a wife and kid but has manage to proberly tell a story that gets him around those elements enough to generate a dating atmosphere. Now i consider her a good friend with a big heart ...ok i said that... now knowing hwat i know about dude im not sure if i should stick ot the g code or look after my friend who i would really rather not see go thru this cycle again especially when the lie can be sooooooo blatant but perfectly manipulated. now most of u saying the answer is obvious but obviously not dickhead!!! .... i dont know i have to think on it ....... and no i didnt smash on her......but im figuring if i should speak up or let the ship float.

now thinking about this situation got me thinking marriege

for the ladies
lets go deep me and daniel was talking and u know i think i figured out why relationshits dont work and marriges struggle outside of the reguler shit. i think we marry the ppl we physically lust after(for men) or emotional lust for (for women). when really the best person for u is the person who is ur friend. we neevvvverrrrr date our friend .... for really dumb reason. lets go thru the list we want a guy or girl who is understanding, cool ot be around , funny, knows you , knows when to give u space , ok ok you catch my drift . see u argue with ur friend but tomarrow its nothing . every thing is easy and smooth no matter the conflict . but the person who wasnt ur friend when u fight u notice more shit u really didnt like bout them and odnt know how u could have ever thought it was cute. so ladies....... why is it so hard for u to date the guy who is really a good friend??? oh thats right cus it will mess up the friendship. whats better than finding the guy who u really mesh with.
danny says women always say someone is not thier type yet they keep dating thier type and it never works .....maybe they dont know what thier type is......
i had no faith in marriege but you know what now i do cus im marry that person who is a friend and not another lusting object.

oh big ups to arif he getting marrid and i know he reading and nigga she better be ya friend!!! no whining later

sorry again no music talk but since this shit is so fitting for the post ima bring back the ADDICTION track
i promise next post ill put a street record!!!!

Addicted RMX- Ryan Leslie ft Cassie & Natureboy Rowe
http://www.zshare.net/audio/14662752b76ee924/

oh ps while in dallas im still ironing out a show to do just seeing where the better look is at!

Dr. Rowebotnik